Cory said:
Pack93z said:
Cory said:
cheesey said:
Times like this make me glad i have no kids. How do explain such cruelty to children?
I would think having the kids themselves would far outweigh any explanations that had to be given.
Agreed the joys of children overpower some of the challenges, however it becomes tough at times to explain why things happen in this world. Things should be simply right and wrong, however in todays society of what happens and what is acceptable makes something cloudy for a 5 and 8 year old.
Kids are smarter and pick up more than you can imagine.
I didn't say it was an easy task to explain the horrors and happiness of this world to a child. I just don't think it's an option to not have children because of the explanations that have to be made. It's part of what makes you a parent. You have to trust your own values and teach them to your children. At some point they will grow into their own person.
I think you read LOTS more into what i posted. Fact is, my wife had several miscarriages during our marriage. We wanted kids, but it just never worked out. I would have been a GREAT Dad. (I was taught by my Dad, who died when i was 16, and he was a GREAT Father).
I more meant that seeing as I don't have kids, and have no choice in it, i might as well TRY to find something positive out of the fact that i got ripped off in never having the honor of someone calling me "Dad".
I would have explained ANYTHING till i was blue in the face if I could have been a Daddy to someone.
Damn........now i'm good and depressed.