Ok I will try to disagree better
But just for the record.. you are definitely wrong on that!
@adambr2
I will offer one small but of advice. I mean this in the most respectful way and it’s advice offered to me (because I needed it) from someone I respect highly and who was very kind and respectful to others. WE choose to be offended. YOU have every authority and power to decide to not be offended. You can even try it for 1 day and see if it’s not the best advice ever.
Next time someone passes you and you want to speed up? Don’t. Let them go. I actually leave my home 5-7 minutes early each day and look for a couple people to allow in front of me.
Next time someone enters a door or line at the same time? Signal them that they are first! Next you are on a plane and a couple is about to get separated? Give up your seat and don’t gloat over it!
People are watching every breath and every syllable is being taken note. I’ve had people chase me down in an Airport to tell me my actions were kind beyond anything they’ve seen. That’s the truth too. Be kind and generous to others with all your effort and time…and others will start to be kind back.
YOU choose to be offended and YOU choose not to be offended. YOU hold 100% control over that every day. It’s just that nobody told us to train ourselves for life. Life will lead to constant disappointment if you expect others to not offend you. I’m 100% positive on that and it’s some of the best advice you’ll have ever tried.