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Discussion in 'The Atrium' started by uwbadger12000, Feb 14, 2006.

  1. PackinSteel

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    Find out if she would be willing to watch the draft instead of the prom (if they had been the same day). If not then no reason to ask her anyhow :lol:

    Good luck!

    (j/k - Heather, you know that right?? :wink: )
     
  2. cheesey

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    I'm sorry for what you are going through UW! I lost my Dad when i was 16.

    Now, here's what happened to me...........i had a friend, she was really nice to me. I wanted SO bad to ask her out.........and i finally got the guts up to ask her. Things were never the same..........she told me she didn't feel the same, and from then on she wouldn't even talk to me. And she had shared VERY personal things with me.
    So, what i'm saying is, be prepared either way. But i say GO for it! Or you will kick yourself for not knowing! And if someone beats you too it, you REALLY will be mad at yourself! I say, go with the straight forward approach. Then theres NO doubt if she's interested in you or not.
    Let us know whay happens!
     
  3. uwbadger12000

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    I don't know.

    I don't know.
     
  4. uwbadger12000

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    Hopefully, Kelsey (her name) won't be friends with me because if that happened to me.
     
  5. mattresell

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    Everybody's given great advice for you. Let me add a warning though. If you have the intentions of this being a "date" or turning into a relationship, you might want to make that clear up front. You don't want to be all into it and have her think it's just a "friend" thing.

    Hopefully you'll get lucky and she'll ask whether or not ya'll are going as friends. Otherwise you're gonna have to straight up tell her that you want to be more than just friends and that prom can be the start of this.
     
  6. Heatherthepackgirl

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    Its okay PacknSteel, I would rather watch the draft then go to prom anyways,,,,LOL,,,

    Its always hard to ask someone for a date for fear of rejection, but go for it Badger!!! Just be yourself you cant go wrong with that...if she says no, shes not the right one for you...but dont ever give up...
     
  7. cheesey

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    When i got BLASTED out of the water, it hurt, but i'm glad i knew. The funny thing was, about 5 years later i saw her and her husband (this guy was more in love with HIMSELF then HER!) he paid NO attention to her........she came up to me, kissed me, and said "The spark is still there!" and winked at me! Well, i was engaged at the time, and i just smiled and walked away! (PAYBACK!) She saw what she lost! HER loss! :wink:

    Good luck with Kelsey! And do what Mattressell said! Be up front with your intentions, so there's NO doubt for her!
     
  8. uwbadger12000

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    Thanks for the tip. I will keep that in mind.
     
  9. cheesey

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    You HAVE to let us know the outcome, ok?
     
  10. GakkofNorway

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    YES PLEASE!
     
  11. uwbadger12000

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    I will when I ask her. As of right now, I have not asked her yet.
     
  12. cheesey

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    Get on the BALL man!!! If you wait too long, someone else might beat you too it!!! Then you REALLY will kick yourself!
     
  13. uwbadger12000

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    okay. I'll ask her when I get the chance.
     
  14. gopackgo4

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    yeh and if u get denied oh well life goes on
     
  15. uwbadger12000

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    Yeah. I know chances are that she'll probably say no because I know I'm not the hottest looking guy around, not to mention I am not smart at all, while Kelsey gets 4.0's.
     
  16. arrowgargantuan

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    ahhh..the defeatist attitude! screw that badger...Kelsey wants to be asked to the prom, you're helping her out by offering to take her.

    think about it that way and have some self-confidence dude. the funny thing is she's probably nervous about NOT getting asked...so do her a favor and handle it buddy :wink:.
     
  17. uwbadger12000

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    Kelsey is an extremely good dancer. I do know that about her.

    I don't about what you said arrow about her nervous about not getting asked, but I'll take your word for it.
     
  18. Heatherthepackgirl

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    You might be surprised, to me girls look at personality mostly and these days a cute butt...do you have one of those? Just kidding,,LOL,,,I myself always looked at their smile and then their personality...I was a cheerleader and pom pon girl in high school and was asked out by lots of jocks, but always said no..they spent to much more time then me looking at themselves in the mirror...lol...I liked the down to earth types myself...

    Let us know what happens,,,good luck
     
  19. uwbadger12000

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    I personally think I have a good personality myself. One of the things I do have going in my favor is that I have a great sense of humor.
     
  20. Heatherthepackgirl

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    See those things are the most important, and if she cant see those great qualities in you then she isnt the one for you,,,then you have to find a girl that appreciates those qualities,,,I surely would....
     
  21. Heatherthepackgirl

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    Hay, I want to be a watergirl,,,lol
     
  22. uwbadger12000

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    I think that is a great point. I think she doesn't have a boyfriend right now, either.

    BTW, you guys can call me Jonathon if you'd like if you don't feel like calling me badger.
     
  23. Heatherthepackgirl

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    Nice to meet you Jonathon,,,,

    Hope it works out for you,,,I would ask her soon ...and again if it dont work out its not the end of the world....then it wasnt meant to be...you will find a great girl that loves you for who you are inside....thats the most important...
     
  24. uwbadger12000

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    I am planning on asking her within the next week or two. If I get a good chance, then I will.
     
  25. cdnpackfan

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    This is true. Its ok to maybe wait a little bit, but not too long, go for it!

    Ya gotta have confidence when you go to ask though man! I'm no expert here, but I think everyones given you some great advice. Good luck.
     

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